How to turn off ical reminders alerts in ical on your mac

This one is useful if you use a mac and an iphone.
i like my reminders on my phone, I like having them synced to my mac.
i dont like getting beeped at ten times when I have something to be reminded about. once is enough.

to turn off the reminders on your mac (so that only your phone beeps)

open ical > preferences > advanced

tick ‘turn off alerts’

now you will not get reminders on your mac!